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CHAPTER ONE
By Douglas G. McLeod
Edited by Caroline Bielskis
NATURAL AND ENVIRONMENTAL WEAPONS
NATURAL WEAPONS
From the beginning of humankind, we have used "natural weapons" to
survive. Natural weapons are the abilities we have as human beings that
enable us to live from day to day, in both threatening and
non-threatening situations. Although they help us in our daily
activities, I’m going to discuss the use of these abilities in terms of
self defense.
First, we have the five senses: sight, hearing, smell, touch, and taste.
These "natural weapons" give us signals and warnings that enable us to
detect danger and react appropriately for self-defense and survival.
It’s important for everyone to understand and develop their senses for
self defense through practice and strategy.
Other natural weapons that work with the five senses are emotions,
instincts, feelings, intelligence and insight ( sometimes called E.S.P).
All of your natural weapons can be developed and sharpened to better
equip you for hazardous situations. Learning to read your initial
feelings in a new situation, and to control your reactions to those
feelings, could save your life and the lives of your loved ones.
In more primitive times, human beings were very alert and sensitive to
any change in their environment. Modern technology has given us a false
sense of security and most of us have let our natural weapons become
weak from lack of use. Because of the sense of security provided by
advanced technology, many people don’t understand the importance of
keeping our innate defense abilities in shape. Although we feel safer,
and in some ways we are, we are still quite vulnerable. In fact, some of
our technology has actually created more hazards while protecting us
from others. One example is electricity. Although we have lights and
alarms powered by electricity, we also have the hazard of fire or
electrical shock. In addition, as security has advanced, so has the
level of sophistication of our criminals.
There are many things we can do to protect ourselves that many people
aren’t aware of. You can use proper breathing to control stress,
increase your reaction time and your ability to think clearly under
pressure. Breath control is particularly powerful in life-threatening
situations. If you can stay calm and assess the situation quickly, react
faster and stay in control then you have an advantage.
As always, we can learn from the past. Great warriors in history
sharpened their natural weapons to survive and win battles. Today, the
military still uses some ancient techniques to teach soldiers how to
keep their natural weapons intact, even under the worst conditions. A
well-trained soldier will stay calm and still be able to think clearly,
even after being sleep deprived, starved or tortured.
Obviously, the average person doesn’t have to worry about such extreme
conditions, but there have been cases where a person was kidnapped, held
in a dark room and starved. Under this scenario, keeping your natural
weapons intact would enable you take advantage of any opportunity you
may have to escape. Sometimes the window of opportunity is open for only
a second or two. If you remain aware and stay calm, a second or two is
enough and you’ll succeed in your goal. Your mind is your most powerful
weapon, but if you don’t keep it sharp and strong, it can be used
against you like any other weapon.
As explained earlier, your natural weapons are your senses and your
intellect. Learn how to better protect yourself by sharpening those
tools. Practice using your natural weapons at all times: look, listen
and feel intuitively as your go through your day. You’ll find that
you’ll be able to react naturally and effectively to all situations,
whether they are dangerous or not. You’ll become a better listener and
observer, which will improve your performance in sports, at work and in
your personal relationships. Generally, developing your natural weapons
will improve your quality of life, as well as improve your ability to
defend yourself.
SIGHT.
"With a trained eye you can see so much more of the picture." Learn how
to recognize dangerous situations before they happen by looking for
signs. An excellent example is the saying, "Where there’s smoke, there’s
fire". Once you detect a sign of danger (someone watching you walk to
your car; a broken streetlight near your car or home; suspicious looking
people, etc.), you should react accordingly to prevent an incident.
If you encounter someone, look them in the eye. Don’t stop, but let them
know that you’ve seen them. If they try to talk with you, respond
quickly and keep moving. If you feel threatened at this point, be
prepared to defend yourself, and continue walking with confidence.
When you approach your home, scan the area for signs (broken windows,
trampled landscaping, movement in the shadows or inside the home, etc.).
If you see anything out of the ordinary, use your cell phone to call the
police and alert them. Ask them to come and check it out, and wait down
the street, or at a neighbor’s house, until they arrive. Sometimes,
having a neighbor come with you to check out the situation is enough,
but never hesitate to ask the police for assistance. Their job is to
protect and serve the public.
Vision is impaired at night, so always keep a flashlight handy. There
are very powerful flashlights that will fit in your purse or pocket. The
‘Maglight’ company has an excellent line of small lightweight
flashlights. Get several, and keep one in your car and some placed
around the house. Be sure to keep extra batteries on hand.
HEARING:
When walking, particularly if you’re alone or in an unpopulated area,
listen for footsteps behind you, or sounds of someone hiding or waiting.
Listen to the normal sounds around your home. Knowing what is normal is
very important, because then you can recognize what is abnormal.
Identify the normal sounds, so that you know where they’re comming from.
Have a plan for the household so that you’ll be prepared if you have a
break in. If you live alone, make arrangements with a neighbor to look
out for each other. Keep their phone number on speed dial at home and on
your cell phone. Call the police immediately if you suspect any danger.
It’s better to be safe than sorry.
SMELL:
Like familiar sounds, there are also familiar smells in your daily
environment: at home, office, school, etc. Become aware of what is
normal so that you’ll be able to identify unusual smells in your home or
car. You can tell if someone has been there if you’re sensitive to faint
odors. Whether it’s cologne, smoke, or just the particular natural scent
a person has – being sensitive to scent could save your life. When you
walk in the door, sniff as you enter each room. It’ll feel strange at
first, but eventually it will become a habit. If you come home and
notice an unfamiliar scent in your home, get out immediately until
someone can go through your home with you – or get a weapon and search
your home yourself. Criminals have been known to enter a home, hide, and
wait until everyone goes to sleep. Rapes and child abductions have been
committed with this method.
Your sense of smell can help you out in the world as well. Learn to
detect the smell of alcohol. Be very cautious if you’re approached by
someone who smells of liquor, and get away from them as quickly as
possible. Teach this to your children. Alcohol consumption affects
different people differently. You never know if the person will become
agitated, irrational or violent when they’re under the influence.
TOUCH:
Your hands are your most versatile tools, and are excellent weapons.
However, your sense of touch extends beyond the hands. You can feel
changes in temperature or air movement on your face. The hair on your
arms, or the back of your neck, raises when you sense something is
wrong. Use your tactile sensitivity to your advantage. Get shape and
color coded key markers so that you can identify the correct key in the
dark. You can purchase these at any hardware store. For example, your
car key can be round on top and your house key can be square, so you
know the difference immediately.
If the lights go out in your home, or your visibility is hindered by
smoke from a fire, you will use your other senses to get yourself and
your family to safety. Practice walking through your home blindfolded,
so you know where any obstacles are. Incorporate this game, and other
training games, into your family safety plan, which is discussed in
chapter ??.
TASTE:
The sense of taste works with our sense of smell. Have you ever noticed
that, when you smell something, sometimes you can taste it too? Learn to
use this to your benefit. Your sense of taste can help you detect
dangerous substances in the air, contaminated food or water, and other
hazards.
Special Note: Women in particular need to be aware of what they’re
eating or drinking on a date. There are drugs being used by predatory
men called "date rape drugs". These are strong chemicals that quickly
render the victim helpless and incoherent. Many of these drugs are
tasteless, but some of them do have some sort of taste. Never leave your
drink unattended. If you must leave the table or bar, take your drink
with you or ask for a fresh one when you return. If your date has a
problem with buying you another drink, leave. If you suspect that
something has been slipped into your drink or food, get away and get
help as quickly as possible. Unfortunately, women need to be extra
careful when out on the town, whether on a date or with girlfriend. Some
women go out alone, but I don’t recommend it, unless it is a familiar
place where you know people and feel safe.
EMOTIONS:
Emotional self control is critical for your safety, and the safety of
others. Our lives today are more stressful, in spite of the conveniences
and comforts of modern technology. In the past decade, the phenomenon
called "Road Rage", has put many people in danger, and has even taken
lives.
Negative emotions, such as envy, jealousy, anger, frustration, fear etc.
will lead to irrational and destructive behavior if they’re not kept
under control. Fear, in particular is an emotion that we need to
conquer, because it often causes us to react in a way that will make a
situation worse. Many people freeze when they’re afraid, and cannot
function normally. If you feel threatened, you need to stay calm, keep
your head clear and act in a way that will protect you and your family.
There are methods that you can use to strengthen your reactive mind, and
stay in control when you’re under extreme pressure or stress. Appendix
??? lists some suggestions.
SIXTH SENSE:
Intuition or ‘gut feeling’ are the most common terms used for the ‘sixth
sense’. This is difficult to explain, but most people know what it is
because we’ve all experienced it. Sometimes it seems like an irrational
fear, because our logical mind doesn’t understand what our intuition is
telling us, but it’s important to pay attention. As mentioned before, if
a situation feels wrong – it probably is. When you get a certain feeling
about a person, pay extra attention to what that feeling may be telling
you. We are taught to see the good in people, and life in general. Our
sixth sense is nature’s alarm, and tells us to be alert and pay
attention. Many people have survived awful situations because they
listened to their feelings. Others have been hurt because they ignored
them.
If you sense that something is wrong, heighten your awareness and look
for possible signs of danger, so that you can react appropriately and in
a timely manner. If you do, you may be able to avoid the hazard
completely.
Sometimes, intuitive feelings come from other senses. We smell, hear or
feel something that we may not be able to fully identify, but we know we
need to take notice. Early pioneers had to use their intuition on a
daily bases for survival. When they felt fear, it was a warning sign.
Today, we tend to suppress our feelings and don’t recognize signs of
possible danger, due to the false sense of security, and we don’t take
action.
When a person comes home at the end of the day, they usually have many
things on their mind. Once they get into their home, it feels like a
safe haven from the world and they’re just happy to be there. The last
thing they’re thinking is that someone has broken into their home, and
may still be hiding inside. When they enter the house there may be a
faint unfamiliar smell or something may be out of place. Many people
wouldn’t notice anything, or they’d tell themselves that they’re tired
or imagining things. This process: awareness of something unusual, then
invalidating what their senses are trying to tell them, happen in a
split second – but could put them I harm’s way if they ignore their
intuition.
If you sense that something is awry, you may have an intruder, or have
had one earlier. Assess the situation quickly and respond to a plan of
action. It could be that your cat knocked something over, or got into
the cat nip and went on a rage in your home - or it could have been an
intruder waiting for you! Go back outside immediately and either call
the police to have them come and check your home inside and out, or go
to a neighbor and ask them to accompany you while you check yourself. It
may seem paranoid, but it’s always best to error on the side of caution
and most neighbors will understand. If it’s just the cat, you’ll get a
good laugh – and peace of mind.
Too often, we take unnecessary chances because we’re not paying
attention or using common sense. It’s important to have a good survival
plan. The idea that someone would be in your home is unimaginable, and
that’s exactly why people are caught by surprise.
A common place where people are vulnerable is a parking garage,
particularly at night. While walking to your car, a man begins to
approach you, and you feel uneasy. Quickly assess the situation and try
to analyze why you feel this way. Is he looking around as though he’s
checking for witnesses? Do you smell liquor on him? Do his eyes look
strange or is he acting abnormal or nervous? These are all warning
signs. You should prepare to defend yourself by holding your keys so
that the points stick through your fingers. (This is a great weapon for
scratching and poking.) If you have pepper spray, get it out, but for
God’s sake don’t allow him within striking distance and then try to
react. If doesn’t say anything initially, speak to him. Ask him what he
wants, and don’t turn your back on him. Sometimes we wait too long and
allow the situation to escalate instead of taking the opportunity to
prepare. Remain mentally prepared at all times. You must tell yourself
that you will fight back and do everything you can to keep him from
hurting you.
Sometimes it’s best to leave the garage and go to a lighted area until
you see more people going into the garage. It’s always better to walk
with a group. Otherwise, go to a business and request an escort to your
car.
When your intuition tells you to sit up and take notice – listen! Even
if you don’t know why, be ready to defend yourself. Pay attention and
take precautions. Your environment dictates your circumstances, and
course of action. Awareness heightens your intuition. Together these
natural weapons help you detect potential dangers early enough to react
accordingly.
Strategy is critical for you to have the best advantage, even with
knowledge of your natural and environmental weapons. I have developed a
system to help you create a strategy to use these weapons effectively.
It’s called the A.P.P.E.E. system.
A.P.P.E.E. SYSTEM OF SELF-DEFENSE AND SURVIVAL
A.P.P.E.E. stands for Awareness, Prevention, Preparation, Empowerment,
and Execution. This system is used by most police officers and other
crime prevention and self defense professionals. It is a simple system
that incorporates your natural weapons, common sense and practicality.
Any practical self-defense or crime prevention method must be applicable
to everyone, regardless of their size, gender or special circumstances.
The system should have fundamental physical requirements, and should be
more dependent on the mental process than physical strength.
Remember: your mind is your most powerful weapon. Your perspective and
your reactions will determine whether you win or lose. If you see
yourself as a victim, or if you react to a threat by freezing, you are
as much of a danger to yourself as your attacker is to you. If self
defense depended on a person’s size, gender and strength, the world
would be a very different place than it is now. Always assume that you
can do SOMETHING – and never give up trying. This is a good rule for
self defense, and for life in general.
AWARENESS.
Train yourself to constantly assess your current environment. Look
around, listen and feel. When you detect a possible hazard, you need to
react appropriately. Being aware will give you an advantage in every
situation you encounter. Not just in threatening situations, but in your
personal and professional life as well. Pay attention and be aware of
everything around you.
Constant awareness does not mean living in a paranoid state. It means
that you understand that criminals watch for people who seem distracted.
They want to make it easy on themselves, so they’re less likely to
attack someone who walks with a purpose and seems to be in control and
aware of their surroundings. Pay attention and be sensitive to potential
dangers so you can react appropriately and in a timely manner. At first
it may feel stressful to continuously be on the lookout, but after
awhile it’ll be second nature, and you’ll do it in a relaxed and natural
state. It’s simply learning a new good habit.
If you’re approaching your car and see a suspicious person lingering,
calmly go back into the business or residence you were visiting and ask
someone to accompany you to your car – or at least come and watch until
you get to your car safely. You may feel silly doing this, but it’s
better than being a victim.
PREVENTION:
There are many ways to prevent crime and keep yourself out of
threatening situations. For example, if you have a car, make sure it is
well maintained and keep the gas tank at least half full at all times.
There have been many incidents where a car broke down at night, and the
driver became the victim of a random attack.
A few years ago, a woman ran out of cigarettes late at night and she
decided to make a quick trip to get some more. Her husband was out of
town, and her kids were in bed. She didn’t leave a note, because the
store was only three miles away, and it would only take her a few
minutes, so no one knew where she went. She never made it to the store.
The next morning, the kids woke up and couldn’t find their mother. They
called their father, who called the authorities. The police found her
car about two miles away from their house. She ran out of gas and was
raped and murdered.
It’s never the victim’s fault when a crime is committed, but basic
precautions, awareness and preparedness can help prevent crime and save
lives. Although we’re all subject to a car breakdown, running out of gas
is preventable. Using crime prevention and self protection techniques is
a good habit to get into. It’s better to be a little overly cautious.
Here are some things to remember:
Always be sure to give yourself a half tank of gas.
Never leave your house without telling someone or leaving a note
(especially late at night.)
If it’s late and you’re almost out of gas, don’t leave.
Be sure to lock your doors as soon as you get into the car.
Keep a flashlight with you, along with flares and water
Take a basic self-defense class, and a basic first aid class.
PREPARATION.
Awareness helps us stay out of trouble, but sometimes trouble finds us
anyway. That’s why it’s important to be prepared for unexpected
situations. One of the easiest things to do is to keep a cell phone with
you at all times. These days, cell phones are relatively inexpensive,
and allows people the freedom to do things they wouldn’t ordinarily do.
I know several women who feel safe to travel alone, now that they have a
cell phone. They never would have risked it before. Part of being
prepared is using your natural weapons, including common sense and
intuition.
EMPOWERMENT:
Empowerment is a state of mind. It comes first from your self image, and
then from your ability to take care of yourself. Empowerment is strongly
linked to your self-esteem. If you feel worthy, you are more likely to
feel empowered and in control of your life. A strong self esteem creates
a stronger survival instinct.
You can gain empowerment and strengthen your self-esteem through various
resources and experiences. A good self-defense class helps tremendously
in gaining physical empowerment. There are many books and classes that
can help build self-esteem and mental/emotional empowerment. Identifying
and understanding your weaknesses is a good place to start. This is a
mental and physical process. You must develop both parts to acquire true
empowerment.
Many people let others step on them, intimidate them, and easily
diminish their confidence and ability to fight back on all levels. Most
of these people have issues that go back to childhood. If this sounds
like you, it’s critical that you put the time and effort into developing
your self-confidence. Once you recognize the behavioral patterns you
have, you can break them and change your life. Many people don’t realize
that we can be victimized by family and friends - and even ourselves.
It’s more subtle and probably less dangerous than an attack by a
predator, but it can cause damage nonetheless. If you need help dealing
with the emotional side of this, find a good, trustworthy professional
counselor and a good support group to help you work through your issues.
Your quality of life depends on it!
Women have always been more vulnerable to attacks. Therefore, they have
a different perspective than men do, when it comes to self protection.
Many women are taught from childhood that men are going to protect them,
and so they don’t need to learn self-defense. This is a dangerous
attitude for women and girls to have. It limits their quality of life
tremendously, as well as their ability to reach their full human
potential in life. Fortunately, times have changed, and we all recognize
that women need to feel the freedom to do whatever they desire. They
need autonomy and independence, just like men do. For many women, taking
a good, realistic, hands-on self-defense course not only empowers them,
but also teaches them that they’re not victims. Women should be proud to
be women and should never feel inferior because of their gender, size or
physical limitations. In other chapters we will deal with emergency
self-defense for women, and for seniors – another vulnerable group.
EXECUTION:
Execution is the last stage of self-defense. Once you are empowered with
the mental and physical ability to defend yourself – you must be willing
and able to execute effective self defense tactics.
If you put the effort into developing personal empowerment along with
self-defense knowledge, but cannot bring yourself to use it, you’re not
only wasting your time and energy – but you’re also putting yourself in
danger. You may take risks that you shouldn’t take because, you over
estimate you ability to use what you know. Although you have the
knowledge, you’re unable or unwilling to execute the technique.
In defending yourself, you may have to hurt someone else in the process.
In fact, it’s fairly certain that you will. You need to be aware of that
and accept it. Most of us have been taught that it’s wrong to hurt
another person. But if you’re ever in a situation where you’ve hurt
someone in self-defense – know that you had no choice. The other person
made the mistake of thinking you were a victim, and got a big surprise.
If you feel badly, it simply means that you’re a compassionate person,
not a predator. Being compassionate is wonderful. We need more
compassion in the world. But never compromise your own safety and
well-being for an attacker.
It is important to have a simple plan that meets the needs of you and
your family. It must be easy to remember and easy to execute. You don’t
have to be a martial arts expert – just take a class to learn some basic
blocks and effective strikes, and learn to incorporate environmental
weapons into those skills. Find an instructor that will explain the
psychology of self-defense – because it is a mental activity as much as
it is physical. Practicing your self-defense technique is also
important, so that it becomes second nature. Incorporate your practice
into a daily exercise routine.
ENVIRONMENTAL WEAPONS
Conventional weapons are not always available, and it’s usually too late
for you to use one by the time you realize you’re under attack. Because
most people are pretty safe throughout their daily lives, keeping a
conventional weapon with you is not practical.
The environment dictates what action must be taken in order to defend
yourself, and it also provides tools for you to do it effectively.
Environmental weapons are items that are around you and that you use for
normal daily activities, but can be used as weapons. I also call them
‘street weapons’. There are thousands of environmental weapons, and it’s
important to learn how to recognize them and use them to your advantage.
The environment will always dictate the method of self-defense. You can
develop skills that incorporate environmental weapons, and strengthen
your ability to defend yourself.
There are three main categories of environmental or street weapons:
Projectiles, Striking and Shielding.
PROJECTILES:
Anything you can throw at an attacker that will cause him to pause for a
second, or actually cause injury is a projectile. Even a piece of paper
can be crumpled and thrown at an attacker. It may not hurt him, but it
will distract, drawing attention away from you for a second. This can
give you an opportunity to get another weapon or even run away. It may
just give you a second, but that second could save you.
STRIKING:
A piece of wood found nearby, a chair, a shoe with your hand inside it,
belt and buckle, hand bag, cane, umbrella, tire iron, golf club, are
only a few examples. The purpose to is to defend yourself until help
comes, or to fight back and cause serious damage to your attacker so
they can’t hurt you. A little old lady could defend against more than
one attacker with the proper use of a cane.
SHIELDING WEAPONS;
The purpose of a shielding weapon is to stop an attack like a punch or
knife thrust. A book or purse is a great shield. You can put a shoe or
slipper over your hand and use it to defend against a knife attack,
preventing any serious cuts on your hand. You can use a light weight
chair or other piece of furniture. If you don’t have anything to use as
a shield, it’s better to sustain an injury to your arm than to your head
or body. Try to wrap your arm with something like a jacket, piece of
cardboard or other protective material. This is also effective defense
against an attack from a dog or other animal.
It’s best to have both a shield and a striking weapon when defending
yourself against an attacker. Practice striking and blocking with the
things you handle on a daily basis. Later, in chapter seven, we will be
teaching some methods of defense using the cane, which can be adapted to
any similar object. You’ll be looking at that golf bag in a whole new
light!
A pen or pencil, an umbrella, a golf club, a garbage can lid, etc. Be
ready to use what you have to defend yourself. As mentioned before, for
a quick and effective poking and scratching weapon: when approaching
your car, hold your keys so that the points stick through your fingers.
Environmental weapons are everywhere and you need to understand how to
identify and use them. You can borrow techniques from the fighting arts
to help you use these items more effectively. There are many styles of
fighting arts, some of them thousands of years old. They all have their
pros and cons, and I will not attempt to evaluate them or give
recommendations. Don’t try marital arts moves that you’ve seen in
movies. They require knowledge and technique that you may not have.
Besides, it’s not necessary to know martial arts to defend yourself. You
would need to study a specific art for quite some time before you became
proficient enough to use it effectively. You usually have only one
chance to get the upper hand in an attack, and you don’t want to blow it
by doing something foolish. Something is better than nothing, but you
want your actions to be effective. There are some basic, and very
effective, strikes and blocks that you can employ. These are best
learned in a good self defense class.
Sometimes, you aren’t able to strike out so you have to use whatever
means you have. A female friend of mine was driving in Los Angles. When
she stopped at a red light, a young man opened her car door and ordered
her to get into the passenger seat. He had a knife, so she did what he
told her to do. She had been taking Kick-Boxing Aerobics and was a black
belt in a kicking art. Unfortunately, her skills were useless to her in
such close quarters. Fortunately, she had recently taken a realistic
street self defense course. The young man began to drive the car. While
his eyes were on the road, she had the opportunity to get some hair
spray from her purse, and spray it in his eyes. With her other hand, she
grabbed the steering wheel and drove the car into a fire hydrant. Since
she was ready for the impact, she braced herself and was unharmed, but
the young man was blinded by the hairspray and hit his head. She
immediately got out of the car and ran down the street for help. She
controlled her fear, had a plan of action and executed it. She adapted
to her environment and used a street weapon.
Your first few movements, if executed properly will surprise your
attacker and give you a few seconds of opportunity to escape. The
environment will help you, if you know how to use it. For instance, if
you’re in a parking garage, you can use the cars as a barrier, or roll
under one so that your attacker can’t get to you. Keep moving to make it
harder for them. They may find it too difficult and leave you alone.
You, of course, would be screaming something to draw attention to you.
The word "fire" is better than "help". Sometimes, people don’t want to
get involved when someone yells ‘help’, particularly in the inner city –
but fire is everyone’s concern.
As you move through your daily routine, constantly observe and take note
of possible weapons – as well a places where an attacker could hide and
catch you by surprise. Pay particular attention to the places you
commonly attend: home, office, gym, shopping center, school, public
transportation, etc. Make a mental note of the existing environmental
weapons and shields available to you. Eventually, this will become
instinctual, and you’ll soon be a modern day warrior!
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